@Brad Larsen I really appreciate you posting your article/thread. A great read! I will admit that I am likely not a pure "A"....but I am definitely not a "B" or "C" landlord.
I do expect my PM to be my partner and we should be aligned on goals and objectives. What I offer them is freedom and support on how to fill the property. I gave in to reducing rents, offering free rent incentives, staging a model unit, and putting in an onsite laundromat....all based on their feedback.
What I expect in return is to manage our expenses like it was their own money. A couple examples where they didn't perform....1) they hired a lawn service for $600 for 2 cuts/month...after I was floored by this I made one phone call and had a landscaper for $240 (he was reputable and insured)....2) tenant complained about hot water and rather than have a plumber come out to investigate, they authorized my contractor to replace the hot water heater (they were way beyond their authority limit).
I also expect my PM to show the property. After only 3 visits they complained it was too far of a drive. I had to start running my own open houses and showings.
I sent them leads daily from ads I took out and listings I created on various sites (beyond the standard ones). Leads contacted me multiple times about not getting returned calls. They denied it.
I do commend my PM for being available and responsive. That was something I really liked....emails and texts all hours of the day and night. I know that may sound obnoxious but we were both mutually agreeable to that. Just wished they would have made it out to the property once in awhile (other than the 3 agent visits and one inspection upon takeover they NEVER went onsite).
My response to every tenant I came in contact with...."I work with the property management company".....never told them I was the owner and never gave out my number. Always deferred all questions and concerns to my PM.
It's all a good retrospective. I know PM's deal with alot of headaches and have high turnover. I just felt like my PM wasn't the right PM for me. I'm moving on from this experience and just applying what I learned. I will not be posting on Yelp or Google. But if anyone wants to discuss with me personally I will happily provide my feedback.