Originally posted by @Heather Doe:
A landlord who allows her sons to enter the home without warning (once while I was showering, I woke to a snake under my bed and the walls and other areas full of nasty bedbugs that were there prior to my renting. I approached her and she evicted me. unfortunately I was stuck with nowhere else so I lived with it until her son sexually assaulted me. He got away with this so I fled the property nearly year ago. She and I are currently in a court battle. She’s suing me and threatening that I drop charges against her son. Is this ok? Any advice? Bull crap cause I watched as a young mother (younger than myself) was mobing in last week. Should I warn them? I need advice please someone
sorry. sounds like you aren't having a good go of things.
Advice is hard to give. you've got alot going on here.
1. I would get really frugal & find a better place to live. Plus you need to keep the place really really clean. Take out the trash & keep trash can lids secured so you don't get raccoons. bungee cords seem to work. Be preemptive with pest control. Put out lots of Terro ant killer $10. dollar tree $1 for 4 Mouse snap traps baited with Peanut Butter. Thankfully I don't know much about roach control (ne1 else chime in?) they have glue traps which might have got the snake but glue traps are inhumane imo... Spending $20 on preventative pest control will really improve your life.
2. court cases many times come down to money. I wouldn't let the court case consume you as best you can. I'm not an attorney. I would consult your attorney. If you can't afford one is there a pro bono one that might provide some advice? i just wouldn't let this consume your life. Move on & find happiness as best you can.
3. You might factually mention to new tenant that you had some issues & this is what happened.
4. you might be the problem. Every person typically thinks they are right. But what if you brought the bed bugs in? Where did the snake under your bed come from? If you get her son convicted, it could affect him for the rest of his life. So as a mom your landlord might be willing to throw alot of resources/money attorney at keeping her son's record clean.
Again these can be very complicated/dramatic issues.
Good luck