@Chris Watkins, Thanks so much for sharing your struggles. I am impressed with your persistence and wisdom during Due Diligence as an investor.
I have been fairly candid about a lot of issues on BP. Your story really hits home, and I will share a bit more than normal.
For the past 5 years I have made my living as a bird-dog and then agent (4 years) by finding deals for investors. The last 6 months have almost put me out of business because the "deals" have dried up in the strong seller's market. I have started doing some of my own marketing and even doing the dreaded door-knocking (with some success), but I am about 12 months late to the party. I had great success finding the needle in the haystack on the MLS for so long I became complacent perhaps. Last year was actually my best ever with 31 transactions, and I only have 6 so far this year, so I am woefully behind.
This being said, I also think the market is poised for a leveling off, if not a minor adjustment. This means the deals will soon return! And perhaps no one has the evidence like I have because I make so many offers. I am getting more counter-offers on my low-ball offers, so the excellent litmus test tells me that sellers are becoming more willing to negotiate as the buying pressure slows. And yesterday and just 15 minutes ago both I got agents calling me back on my offers after their deals fell through. I like to call these "resurrections."
So I am cautiously optimistic about the market right now. Don't give up. These are strange times, for sure, but the persistent will win. Just stay the course.
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This graph shows the issue very nicely. We can't keep going down on inventory! The average over the last two months in Salt Lake County is less than a month of inventory (.92 months). It must snap back a bit soon: