@Jim K. Doing “ugly” things is not a guarantee for success in any niche including being the master of doing ugly things. While watching and hearing about people doing horrible things to get to the top may make us feel like we should change our plan, it has never been worth it if it is out of your character.
Some people are just known as a**holes all their life and nobody expects anything better from that person. I learned a long time ago that people only do what you allow them to, and it is a shame that a lot more of us don’t stand up.
In my journey to become a real estate investor, I get daily reminders that if I don’t know who I am, What I stand for, what I want, and how to do it, I won’t succeed.
I have a buddy who was probably the nicest person I had ever known. He had a unique idea for a business, but in order for it to succeed, he had to be a jerk or hire jerks. Day in and out he would embody this, and that became his mindset. He reached his goals, but lost a ton of respect and friends.
I said all of this to say, know who you are, figure out what you stand for, what you want to do, and how to get there. If how you get there requires you to not be who you are, you are faced with the decision to either adopt that mindset, find another way to succeed, or pick a different goal.
Anybody can learn to do anything, so figure it out and reach for the stars! Wishing you the best!