@Tarl Yarber
The story sounds eerily similar to mine. I am currently working on a rehab for my families personal dwelling. Was supposed to net around $150,000 in equity on a large farm house out here in Oklahoma. I also had strange circumstances leading to our purchase of the home (I'll go into detail when I post my success story). A 2 month project has now become a year long project due to hiring a crook as a contractor, and having to personally take over the project on my free time. We are having to rip out most of their work, and start over. I pressed criminal charges on our guy, and he has recently plead guilty to the charges. Hoping to recover some of our losses through the restitution process (should know a dollar amount in the next month or so). Luckily, like you we bought so well that it has only hurt our equity position in the end. Should be wrapping it up at the end of this month, and hoping to still hit between $80-100g's in equity (but, if the restitution # comes back high we could recoup what he originally lost us to put us back around $150,000).
This is only my 2nd rehab, and the first my brother and I did on our own. 1st time to hire a GC, and I was way to trusting. I relied on him the "expert", even when I knew things weren't right. Like you, I see this as a huge learning experience, and it has prepped me as I get ready to start expanding my REI.
Glad to hear it turned out alright for you in the end, and you were able to learn valuable lessons along the way.
Keep your eyes on the success story forum for more to come!