Is it typical for a new BRRRR investor to expect the following from hard money loan/investor:
For the hard money loan to pay for:
a down payment - A hard money loan will pay part of the purchase price, typically 65-90% of the purchase price.
closing costs - Some loans may include closing costs, this is atypical.
repairs on the house - Most hard money loans to include part or nearly all of the repair budget.
As for HML working with first-timers, I don't think what Jaysen said is the standard. HML will finance your deal and confirm it makes sense, but it may be at a much higher cost than someone with experience. if you are getting rejections it is because your deal, credit history, or assets are not sufficient for the lender.
As for getting your ducks in a row, talk to your hard money lender as well, there are longer terms, extensions, or 'take-out' lenders that they can refer you to that may not have seasoning requirements as long as 1-year.
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