Hi @Bailey Mason,
Great question!
Do you have any of the following: your own money to put into the deal, flipping education, local knowledge, an understanding of your market, resale prices, understand construction prices, and other things that would make a private lender comfortable lending to you?
If you have some (or all) of these areas of knowledge, maybe you can get your lender comfortable lending to you. The first flip is definitely the hardest to raise for so you need to be scrappier.
You also can bring the deal to an experienced flipper and work on it together. (YES, YOU WILL NOT MAKE AS MUCH MONEY ON THE DEAL. However), you will gain the experience you need.
Also, I think if you are buying the house at a good price and not leveraging too high (i.e. you putting in a solid amount of your own money into the deal and not making your lender put too high of a percent down) that might be a great way to tell them that they have a nice safety net.
A few other things you can bring to a lender to get them comfortable: 1) Get the property appraised and/or; 2) pay a broker to do a BPO as-is and ARV; and 3) Get the property inspected with an official inspection report; 4) Get MULTIPLE contractors into the property and get detailed SOW's (Scopes of Work) 5) Show your other experiences, accomplishments, and skills in other areas and how they are relevant 6) show your credit score and other personal assets you have in case the deal goes south.
Best of luck!