Hi Kadijah,
I am just completing my first Fix and Flip. The most important learning factor for me is to just jump in and do it. Don't just stand on the sidelines analyzing. The education that you get from doing it and learning through the process is invaluable. I have learned so many things through the journey of this first one. There have definitely been some mistakes but that just means that I won't do them again. I recommend two books, How to Flip a House by Brant Phillips and Flipping Houses Exposed by Danny Johnson. Danny was on the podcast very early on.
The steps I would take are:
1. Work on financing.
2. At the same time, I would be looking for a realtor that can help or get your license.
3. Start searching for contractors, write down their info and start talking to them.
As far as people saying that newbies shouldn't flip. I don't necessarily agree. I think that if you can find a deal that is really good, then you can most definitely start with a flip. The better the deal, the more cushion you have for those "learning experiences". Even if you were to break even or lose 5k, you will learn so much. Just make sure that you ask questions while the process is going on.
Good luck!