@Kristin Cooper, first, best of luck with your decisions as they can be life-changing.. Getting into real estate was one of the best decisions my wife and I ever made and has enabled us to retire in our mid-50's.
Second, we are heavily invested in SFH in Tulsa area and MFH in Dallas so I can only speak to those markets.
Generally, though, I don't see similarities yet between the housing crisis of ~ 10 years ago and now (when we picked up a lot of SFH from distressed mortgage situations). As someone else stated, the forbearance rate doesn't mean anything at this point. We won't know if it means anything for a few months.
RE: Tulsa... So far, we have not seen any negative impact as our collections are actually better than ever. If anything, it's been a positive as tenants seem to be putting more focus on financial discipline that perhaps they didn't have a few months ago. Will see if that continues. BTW, Tulsa continues to be a fairly stable housing market that is attractive to buy and hold investors. While we don't see big appreciation, we also don't see big depreciation. Keep in mind, I only have SFH in Tulsa and they are all upper blue-collar/lower white collar neighborhoods (specifically in the 3/2 category in suburbs with good school districts).
RE: Dallas.. We only have MFH and they are all B properties. Again, we are pleasantly surprised with rent collections. We are glad we chose B properties as we do see some "Step down" effect of people in A properties wanting to save some $ and moving down to B properties as they still have similar amenities. We don't see people moving from B to C, but who knows if that will happen should this continue too much longer.
My advice for long-term investors:
1. Know your goals - do you want to buy and hold and build cash flow or are you looking to buy and sell? These are two very different goals which require very different strategies.
2. Buy the right categories - if this COVID has taught up anything, it is to be in the right categories that are as recession proof as possible. Unless you have government guaranteed rents, C's would not be a good category to be in right now.
3. Capital is King! - If there are any forbearance issues, it will most likely be with investors who were not well capitalized and couldn't therefore weather storms. This was critical to the housing crisis both for those that lost houses as well as those who had a lot of capital on the side and able to pick up houses at discounts. Now is the right time to build capital if you don't already have it.
4. Constantly evaluate your strategies - Are your strategies helping you achieve your goals? If not, readjust. If so, stick to your knitting!
Again, best of luck!