Hi again Koki,
After researching here on BP, I've decided my primary strategy for my first investment will be a multifamily using FHA while living in one unit for at least one year myself.
I think the biggest "hurdle," for me will be finding a property that will be approved for the FHA loan that will also yield relatively good cash flow, and be net positive once I rent the unit I'll live in for at least a year.
If you are looking at buying your first property while simultaneously investing I think it could be the right strategy, especially if you run the numbers in your area and see that the renters will essentially pay most of / all of your monthly expenditures.
One thing to consider that perhaps a more experience BP member can consult on are any penalties or "pitfalls," of moving out of an FHA property after one year. For example, I read / heard somewhere that in order to qualify for another FHA loan (for your second home) you would need to have at least 20% equity in your first property (the initial multifamily used alongside the FHA loan that is).
Again, I'll stress that I am just as new to this as you are, so perhaps something like what I mentioned wouldn't really occur or wouldn't really be an issue.
I suppose you and I both would also need to get the significant other's approval before going forth forth with a duplex / triplex as a primary residence while renting out the other unit(s). Is it something you think your wife will go for?
I'd love to stay in the loop and I'll keep you updated on my end as well as I am looking at this within the next few months!