Thanks for the shout out @Ed B. Since you asked so nicely, here's an update
Last October when I had my biggest month and made $60k, I realized this was my time to ramp up and go after the success that I'd only heard about on podcasts. So I made my decision and went IN. I got infusionsoft and started to systematize. It took me 2 months, too many VA's, and complete isolation but I did it. I had the follow ups totally automatic, the tasks, the process, everything. I mean that CRM was a BEAST and it only took that last final piece of the puzzle to realize I just spent $5k on va's&add ons&customizations even though will now be paying $500/mo to keep it running. But so what? I NEEDED it if I was gonna compete with the big guys. Btw, 5 months later I switched to Zoho & Zapier - no add ons needed. Still, I'll always think of that expensive a** CRM as one of my greatest masterpieces.
Anyway, ive finished my crm so now it's time for me to get back in the business so I immediately mail out 25,000 zips in December and get INUNDATED with calls. Ended up getting like a 6% response rate. It's all I could have ever asked for and more, right? Well it didnt matter either way cos I think I answered/responded to maybe 1/10th of them. Unbelievably overwhelming, like anxiety. It just took everything I had not to cry over the fact that i just spent $8,000 on a SUCCESSFUL mailing only to see it all going down the drain right before my eyes and i was just standing there letting it happen. Thankfully out of desperation I hired an experienced assistant on the spot full time for $15/hr. She was the answer to my real estate prayers. She followed the script, took the calls, made the offers, got the contracts signed, made the follow up calls, responded to the emails, set the appointments, literally EVERYTHING. I was convinced she was the best decision I ever made.
To be honest I think I worked less than 10 hours a week just calculating ARV's, making decisions etc behind the scenes while my rockstar assistant took over my place in the same Florida market that I was supposed to dominate. So i figured i might as well shift my focus to my website in the meantime and hired an seo guy to do all the heavy lifting for $5/hr while i directed. Almost immediately the site started bringing us 4-5 organic leads a day and from there i was seriously hooked on this website/seo thing. I wanted MORE free leads. And I wanted them NOW. So I thought to myself duh what better way to speed up the process than Google Adwords? I researched and built landing pages while my seo guy handled the seo for the 50 states i targeted on my site. From there, it wasnt long before we started overflowing with leads and my rockstar assistant was getting us the signed contracts. Now, i dont gamble but this adwords thing turned into an obsession. Click the button and watch the real-time analytics light up. I realize now that i was addicted and spending dumb amounts of money on it but who cares. I have some money here and we're closing deals so there's nothing to worry about. I'm happy and my team is killing it. Unfortunately it didnt stay that way for too long.
We sent out our next mailing to 20k names and this time all at once. I sent out yellow letters with the handwritten address and live stamp, or at least thats what i thought we were sending. When i got my "yellow letter" in the mail, i was horrified to see that it was the super fake looking handwriting font with the barcode on it in a white envelope and the white "handwritten" letter inside didnt make it better. I ended up getting 12 calls and 2 deals. One of them bailed out of nowhere and never sent back the contract but i really didnt care cos the other guy was a homerun. $35K wholesale fee - already sold it to my whale and i havent even gotten the contract back from the seller but i already knew this was in the bag. I blasted it to my list the day before i was supposed to pick up his signed copy cos i wanted to see if i can get more than 35k (which btw i never blast out cos i always just sell my deals to 1 guy). Anyway, the seller ends up in the hospital the next day and we reschedule for monday. No big deal, right? He's excited as hell. Monday comes and he breaks the news to me. Turns out, some *********** wholesaler on my list decided to list my deal 'for sale by owner' on zillow, and over the entire weekend while the seller is trying to rest and recover, he gets hounded with people knocking on his door asking about the house for sale at much more than he thought he was getting. He sold it to one of the big guys for 10k more than i offered him. And the genius zillow wholesaler never even answered any of his calls live ... he sent everyone to a voicemail.
So to make this long story short, my rockstar assistant burns out and quits on me which turns out was perfect timing cos a month later i ran out of money and lost everything i had built, one by one, in a matter of weeks. The car, the website, the phone numbers, the CRM's, the deals i had under contract ... everything. When it was all said and done, my assistant made us a "whopping" $40k in 4.5 months while i spent the entire amount, along with the other $60k, being focused on the wrong thing. I let myself get comfortable and used to this idea that even though i wasnt contributing, just sitting back relaxed on the sidelines, overworking my employees, diminishing my hunger for success, lackadaisically directing the traffic, i thought somehow magically i would still come out on top. I knew better.
Thankfully theres a happy ending to the story. Two of the deals i had under contract ended up needing to go through probate and the closings were delayed, so I have $21k closing in the next couple of weeks that i will be using to start over .. the right way this time.
So my humble advice to everyone:
1. Start with a DETAILED plan, a DETAILED budget, a DETAILED blueprint that leads you to your goal. Write it down, and stick to it like your life depends on it. Tweak it after/while you take action and discover new data with your own eyes.
2. Save like 40% of what you make. Liquid, like in a safe or something where you dont see it. Use the rest of the money to keep you hungry and creative and motivated to keep going after what you're really after.
3. Get a mentor.They're smarter than you in a lot of ways. They keep you focused. If i had one, i'm pretty sure things would have turned out differently. I'm looking for one now.
4. Discipline.