Hey Evan, glad you are getting into Real Estate Investing. Search around this forum and you will learn a lot more! Its funny because I actually did what you and your wife want to do. I got a decent home that I planned to stay in for a while, once I read Rich Dad Poor Dad, I decided i actually needed to get a lower monthly payment in order to invest more into real estate. I sold my house, with the proceeds I purchased a much smaller property in a C class neighborhood, and also had a head start on a downpayment for my investment property. I then did a cashout refi on my first property (I purchased this one about 5 years ago) and used the $ to buy a property right across the street from my investment property. Once I have these properties rented out, they will easily cover my monthly payment on my house. Which, if we are talking dream homes, would then allow me to get a much better property. The secret is delayed gratification, hold off as long as you can and the reward will be so much greater. Or you can get the expensive house, and enjoy it, but you will not be able to invest as much money, you will have to work harder for much longer, and then when you get tired of the property, or need to move, you will have nothing to show for it aside from however much it has appreciated. Now this is just me venting but as soon as I hit a year at this house, I will be looking to move as it is not great at all. But living in this property has caused me to really double down on working and investing because I know that it is only short term and that I will be having a really nice house whenever the time comes!