@Marlia Stone What is your long term goal? Every property I have bought has ALWAYS had issues. One property was budgeted 40k renovation, however cost 55k. Another property budgeted 85K, cost me 125k, out of pocket.
In the short term it can be overwhelming, you lose sleep, you worry about other hidden issues popping up, you second guess your decision to buy the property (buyer's remorse).
So, what happen to the two property I listed above?
The first one appraised for 38k over what we estimated when the work was finished, and now is worth 77% more than what I have into it, and cash flows very well.
The second property has doubled in price and is a cash cow.
So, what is your long term goal? What is the after repair value? Do you have the staying power to hold and finish the project?
What will the numbers look like 2 years from now?
Only you can answer these questions.
I'm in a different position in life where cash flow is not as important that equity capture. For you it may be different.
Don't give up without a fight :).