@Kristyn Cross totally get the desire to want to move out. I had the opportunity to move home too and basically live for free and it wasn't worth it to me. There's more to life than just stacking cash. That being said I think this is taking a hard look at your current financial situation, we only heard about a small chunk but if I were you I would go through my entire financial situation with a magnifying glass. What is realistic when you move out? What could you afford? What wouldn't cripple you? Etc. I think this situation will be easier to reverse engineer than give you some broad idea.
I am also not familair with the AZ market but start looking around, what's popular, what areas rent the best, etc., and network as much as possible. Not saying this is doable with a small child but could you get to any meetups in the area? Network with other agents? etc. My thoughts here are just the possibility of finding a decent off-market deal.
Next is the financing piece. You'll need to become an expert in your market (know what's realistic to spend) and see how you can come up with that. Maybe you already have enough for a down payment using an FHA maybe not, but you can explore programs too. Explore income-related lending options. For example, I know in Massachusetts they're are down payment assistance programs SPECIFIC to first time home buyers buying a multifamily. There could be something similar in AZ. Keep that RE license active, use that to fund part of your down payment. I totally regret not getting mine sooner.
Lastly, the only people who don't think you're crazy for buying real estate are the ones already investing themselves. If I had a dollar for every person who looked at me like a psycho for being a landlord but they're paying 3k for a 1 bedroom in the city I probably wouldn't need to invest at all๐. You'll learn to tune doubters out.
Feel free to connect. I'm on my second house hack just north of Boston, but clearly love talking about this stuff ๐