Thanks for being forthright, I really do appreciate it. As far as paying off the consumer debt, the 11K would cover it except for about 700$. We do contribute to my pension plan and deferred comp, I wish we could pay the max but our income to expense ratio is too high. That's what brings us to our goal of investing in RE. We do not expect it will be easy. Our goal is to purchase a multi family (atleast one) so it will be paid for by the time we retire. We are in our mid 30s and when it's paid for in 30 years that will strictly be income. The 2nd reason we want to purchase a multifamily is so we can have some tax benefits. The reason we are considering the flip or wholesale is because we realize we have made some financial mistakes in our past. We need to pay down our living expenses so we can take full advantage of the deferred comp and pension contributions. We were thinking (perhaps being naive) if we made a mistake at least it would be 1/2 as much if we invested with a partner. We understand there are pitfalls, we understand we will make many mistakes but honestly there are a lot of benefits to investing in RE. PLease feel free to pick this apart as well. I want to go into this with my eyes wide open. Thanks for taking the time to reply!
PS: as far as the consumer debt goes, most of it was accrued through a run of bad luck. My wife was out of work for quite some time with an injury. Not to make any excuses, I know we should have had a substancial savings or insurance to protect us from that but live and learn.