Originally posted by @Marcus Johnson:
DL Martin
You'll need to read the book Millionaire next door, because the research they did proves you wrong when .
I'll agree to read The Millionaire Next Door (again) if you promise to get your act together and provide for your family so that your wife can stay home and take care of your kids.
The Millionaire Next Door also drives an F150 pickup truck. Do you drive an F150? If not, why not??? Maybe that's why your not a millionaire?
For my entire adult life I was an inner city ghetto street cop. Between my regular shifts, overtime and court appearances, I worked between 50 and 60 hours a week... Nights, Holidays and for several years, every single weekend, until I gained enough seniority to have Fri Sat and Sun off. I did that for 25+ years. My wife was a stay at home mom. She also did all of the book keeping/taxes for our little Buy and Hold rental business that I worked at on my days off. I did that for over twenty years.
The payoff? A big, fat, happy California Public Pension paycheck every month for the rest of my life and a 39 unit apartment complex with a monthly mortgage smaller than The Grinch's tiny, shriveled up heart.
Fast forward to today.
We seem to be financially set. Even though "we didn't live like misers" in SoCal. Along the way I've used and abused seven (7) Porsches. My Stay at Home wife drove BMW after BMW after BMW. We are now "retired" and she "owns" (not leases) an X5 Sport twin turbo. During the "crash" in 2008, we custom built a large home in SoCal for under $600k and when we fled California in 2015 we sold it for... "quite a bit" more than that. "They" all said that we were stupid for building during the crash. I wanted a super nice home for my family to live in. I suspected that we might make a few bucks on it when we sold it but I really didn't care. I needed a nice home for my family. Having nice stuff is worth it to some people. But I didn't have to send my wife off to a job every morning in order to pay for our "stuff" OR to pay for our "retirement." I figured it out. I paid for it. She supported me, but I paid for it.
The Millionaire Next Door had some good points but I gleaned nothing from that book that added to my entrepreneurial or investing skillset. As a matter of fact, my biggest take away from the book when I read it nearly 20 years ago, was that private schools are a waste of money. Simply buy a house in an excellent public school district. Boom. Use that private school tuition money to invest in Real Estate. or Bitcoin?
Please, before you pontificate on the financial ineptness of high income earners and high net worth individuals, please get to know a few of them. Believe it or not, generally speaking, they are not idiots/jackasses.
Handle your business. Let your wife stay home and love on your kids.
DL