That sucks. Agreed that customer service and the training required to deal with these situations has nosedived since the pandemic and they laid off a significant chunk of staff.
We had a situation over the July 4th weekend, just after our county reopened after 3 months (and in desperate need of income), with a 7 night stay that was worth $6K. The Guest informed us at check-in of some minor issues which we were happy to resolve but instead they decided to leave. We notified ABB of the situation, so did the guest, and I asked them to at least open the dates so I could rebook, what is peak season during a time when hosts in this region are bleeding due to the pandemic, while they deliberated the case. Six days later they opened the dates (one day before the scheduled checkout) and notified me that they refunded the guest their entire amount. I was shocked! They did not even provide a specific reason just "After reviewing your guest documentation, we have decided to process the full refund based on our guest refund policy:
https://www.airbnb.com/terms/guest_refund_policy
Since we have already paid you out for this reservation, an adjustment of $6,134.28 has been added to your account and will be automatically deducted from your future payouts until it has been reconciled.
You can check the status of your payouts in your transaction history."
I called ABB and fumed for days but nothing could be done. Two weeks later the county shut us down again.