@Paul Farley Your advantage is that you already have comms established with these folks, ie it's not a cold call. This is worth a lot. Secondly, if you don't feel comfortable talking to folks about what you want from life, then RE (and a lot more) may not be for you. It's *all* on a personal level, and this is a great way to weed out the folks that were never going to help you in the first place.
"Hi, it's Paul, I'm calling to say hello and to see if I can ask you a few questions about your RE efforts."
"Sure, what's up?" or "Go kick rocks!" (this is the second sorting of your network).
"I'm thinking of working in X, do you have any thoughts on how a newbie like myself can get started?" (third sort here, these are the folks you want to know).
LMGTFY on the license requirements, etc.
Best of luck!
EDIT: adding: most good info does not come from in-person meets. In fact, I can think of none for myself right now... Think of it this way: what are the odds that someone you can get a lot from (learning, advice, referrals, etc) lives in your town or county? Zero point zero zero for me, but ymmv.