I appreciate this thread because while new here, I have not read how easy it is to be overwhelmed by life’s circumstances that your gutted building stays that way for years.
How timing of buying a rental coincides with your baby needing medical care for a very unknown diagnosis that leads you all over the states seeking a cure.
I’ve not read how the shame of not being able to care for that baby, and your other immediate family members, AND that empty gutted building, is suffocating, and oftentimes dire.
I’ve only read that you get ready to buy, you search to buy, you buy, you fix up, you rent out, you sell or keep. In that order, in that rhythm, with that cadence.
My first experience with real estate investing has been only met with delays for years. Postponement of all kinds, not just the life and death ones. The delays that come from bad work needing to be redone. The delays that come from needing to earn the money to repay to do that work.
I may be the most unlucky real estate investor here, and yet, I’ve still had to make the mortgage, insurance, and tax payments on a building that has needed to wait until my baby was more living than dying, wait until I caught up with everything else that I had to put aside to tend to that baby.