@Rick H. I started coaching a few years ago after some begged me to start doing it. Then I started just "helping" people. Some took my time, but again the ADHD kicked in and I wasted my time. Again time that should have been spent working ON my business, to ensure my business kept moving forward, so that the people that worked for me can continue to have a job.
So, now I do charge, because I rarely accept people in. I deny most people because as Rick has stated, most are in her words ADHD, but I call them BSO's. Bright Shining Objects. They chase the next big thing. They want instant gratification and instant riches. SO those are not the sort of people that will be a success.
But Rick, as picking a college or even a major, you have to do your homework as to what you feel is right. Ask others about a person, find out are they really investing, and not just a slick salesperson.
Here is what I suggest, are they pursuing you, and going after "NEWBIES" only. Or are they just doing what they do, and you ask them to teach. They make it known they will coach/teach, but they don't chase you, they don't meet one on one with you, all prior any contracts are signed or money exchanges hands.
I see it on here all the time, people that claim they are long term investors in my market, but they won't network with other long term investors, ones that have resources, but they jump on newbie posters on here, suggesting they meet up with them. Why only the newbies? That should be a RED FLAG. I would rather meet someone, see they keep showing up, pushing forward and showing a commitment. Then, if they are interested, I will meet with them, discuss everything, and then tell them to take their time, do their due diligence on what I said, talk to my other students, etc. I never push. I am fine investing. My money isn't made coaching, it is via investing. If someone wants to better themselves, then yes, they shoudl pay for my time and experience. But I value that time, that I do my best to weed out those that will waste it. Do I make mistakes and choose people that turn out to be ADHD ish? A few times. I am human. But the vast majority of those that immediately meet me and beg me to coach them or to be a student, I say, NO to.
Just this week 3 people asked me, but I told them, show up, network, prove your dedication to this, then maybe after we will discuss a coach/student relationship.
That ADHD is also why I don't take on INTERNS> Most just waste my time.
Yes, we all are ok with Banks, etc requiring Skin in the game, but you want me to give my time freely to someone. TIME, folks, is our greatest and most valuable asset. Donald Trump and the person begging for change at the exit ramp, have the same amount of it. It is the great equalizer. Want me to spend my time on you? Then you need skin in the game.