Hey @Shaquan Whitaker, you are facing a common moral dilemma with wholesaling. The difference is the seller has already made it clear she only wants to work directly with the end buyer, which you must understand and respect. That does not mean you don't have a deal. Here are a few options you can take:
Ultimately, make sure it is a good deal not just a motivated seller. You don't want to spend a lot of time and energy if the deal is being forced. Feel free to reach out if I can help; I am in Springfield as well.
Good luck!
She seems pretty clear. Does this property make sense for you to buy and hold for a year and then resale?
Hey @Shaquan Whitaker, you are facing a common moral dilemma with wholesaling. The difference is the seller has already made it clear she only wants to work directly with the end buyer, which you must understand and respect. That does not mean you don't have a deal. Here are a few options you can take:
Ultimately, make sure it is a good deal not just a motivated seller. You don't want to spend a lot of time and energy if the deal is being forced. Feel free to reach out if I can help; I am in Springfield as well.
Good luck!
What a great reply @Andrew Newlon. All of those are excellent!
Absolutely @Shaquan Whitaker, please do!
As a wholesaler you need to be prepared to close on any property you get under contract. I have wholesaled but I am able to close if I can't find a buyer. This lady has likely dealt with wholesalers before since she told you she doesn't want to deal with a third party etc. If it were me I would just find a buyer before I get it under contract and connect the two so she is happy. The end goal is to solve her problem and if the numbers make sense it shouldn't be difficult to do. You can figure out compensation later.
@Shaquan Whitaker, I see we are both from the St. Louis area, and my daughters both went to college in Springfield, MO. I think the most important thing is that you can deliver on your intent -- to close with this seller. She is elderly and counting on you, so you have a moral directive. If I were you I would arrange for both Transactional Funding as well as a Hard Money loan in case you don't find a C buyer in time for the planned closing date. I would be transparent to both the Transactional Funder as well as the Hard Money lender so that each knows exactly what is going on. To not waste their time, do everything you can to have your C buyer use for funding the Hard Money lender you are considering. You should have a clear idea within a week or so of closing to give the lenders sufficient time to act. Note: you may have to pay for valuation by way of BPO or Appraisal that is often required by the Hard Money lender. Whatever you do, don't leave this hanging by not paying these costs in the event you go with Transactional Funding.
@Shaquan Whitaker Welcome to BP! Looks like you've got a lot of motivation, and that's a great thing!
One thing that might not be so great: your seller did not, in any way, shape, or form, "put you in a tight spot." She simply dictated the terms in which she was willing to sell to you - i.e. that she expected you to be the party closing on the property if you were the one making the offer to buy the property. I applaud you for not wanting to be dishonest or mislead your potential seller, because that is exactly what most "wholesalers" would do, and (in many investors minds) seems to make up the majority of the business.
When you have a couple of minutes, take a look through the FAQ thread here on BP that discusses if wholesaling is actually legal, and the steps people can take to avoid legal trouble while doing this type of business:
Below is a copy and paste of the most relevant post from the thread, in my mind. (Hat tip to @Darrin Carey)
IS WHOLESALING LEGAL?
I'm not going to get too far down into the weeds here. As you know, with any post there are a lot of "What ifs", ways for people to misinterpret, and look for a way to weasel around what is said.
First, people must stop equating "Assigning the Contract" as everything wholesaling. Assigning is a useful tool, but only one of several ways to wholesale a property. I understand people's attraction, as it's always promoted as a way to “invest” with little or no money, and make a nice chunk of change doing it.
The following applies specifically to unlicensed people in Ohio. Most, if not all states are probably very similar.
WHOLESALING BY CONTRACT ASSIGNMENT
The first two are absolutely absolute (redundancy intended). Direct from the Ohio Revised Code and the Division of Real Estate attorneys. There is NO wiggle room.
The next one should be absolute, but there may be a loophole somewhere.
Now for the licensees:
Being a licensee allows you to advertise a property you don’t own when you have the owner's written permission. You can have it under contract and be acting for yourself, and not as an agent. However, consider this. I can easily imagine a seller filing a complaint/lawsuit on how they were taken advantage of by the unscrupulous licensed, skilled professional real estate agent. You know the one who put their home under contract, then assigned the contract for a lot more than a commission. The agent clearly took advantage of the unsophisticated seller, and stole their home for less than it was worth for their own personal gain. Guess who wins that?
Being a licensee MAY hinder you. At the very least, it requires extensive disclosures, and the broker’s approval.
Wholesaling and all real estate activities MUST comply with the three rules above.
In case you're wondering, I primarily focus on rentals and flips. I do wholesale some properties, which may include assigning the contract.
For additional information, here is a link to the video with Attorney Jeff Watson interviewing the attorneys for the Ohio Division of Real Estate on the specifics of wholesaling legally. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9fi54S8nwUA
ASSIGNING THE CONTRACT
So you’ve followed the rules, and successfully assigned the contract. Now, time for the closing and get paid. It’ll be a great day right? What could go wrong? Remember these two points:
The buyer and seller both have the right to change the purchase agreement. So, the buyer and seller could legally cancel the existing contract and create a new one. (Remember, you're no longer the buyer) You could be sitting at the closing table, and you wouldn’t be able to legally stop it. The title co also wouldn’t be able to stop those changes, as the buyer and the seller have the right to change their agreement. A newly written agreement could take the assignment out of play from the title co perspective. The title co is simply a facilitator for the written agreement in the transaction, even when the buyer and seller make a last-minute change.
Ok, so most buyers and sellers wouldn’t do that. But some would and do. You could try to sue the buyer for not paying you, but how do you think that would go, and what would it cost?
IN CLOSING
How do you prevent all the questions and problems above? Simple.
Clean, neat, simple. And no argument about whether it’s legal.
@Shaquan Whitaker if you want to do the right thing you will buy it, and then dispose of it as you wish.
One thing sticks out to me "she doesn't want me to list it" are you a licensed agent? if not, why does she think you have the ability to list it?