He's an adult, he should deal with it.

Can anyone refer me to a good Virtual Assistant or Virtual Assistant company that works with Real Estate Investors?

If you are assigning the contract to someone else the original contract is still in effect and he should be using the original title company specified in the contract.

I suppose, if needed, you could give him an assignable contract; if he rebuttals with something to the effect of him needing his sales folks, etc.  

The husband, the wife and 2 adult children want to live in the house.

Coupling intermittent inspections with this policy seems like it may be more effective.

Tearing the house down effectively eliminates my new found $50k in equity.

In NYS are any laws in effect that would preclude someone who has a NMLS license, from acting as a liaison between a Private Lender who is lending on a NON OWNER OCCUPIED acquisition construction loan for a Builder?

(You can do this the day after you do #1 so long as the effective start date of the new lease is the day after the expiration of the old lease.)3.

Besides liability protection and overall insurance, an LLC can help you structure your acquisitions in the most tax effective way, ofcourse assuming that without it you would be in a much more pressing circumstance.