Armed security 24/ 7  etc etc..

I certainly did not, and neither did the mortgage lender who  pre-qualified me.After closing on the HELOC  this week, I was reading through the docs last night and stumbled upon the Occupancy clause :"Borrower shall occupy, establish, and use the Property as Borrower's principal residence within 60 days after the execution of this Security Instrument and shall continue to occupy the Property as Borrower's principal residence for at least one year after the date of occupancy, unless Lender otherwise agrees in writing, which consent shall not be unreasonably withheld, or unless extenuating circumstances exist which are beyond Borrower's control"So I'm not sure what to do.  

If at the end of the time I have not been able to secure a buyer, we can either part ways as friends or we can look at lowering the price and I can send it back out to my buyers again.

I can keep you in your house for one year call me "With the tenant base your dealing with most will know these tricks very shortly.. just like they know how to manipulate every single social program out there. 

People who own generally take pride in their properties, your tenants should be socialized enough to keep their place in like manner with the neighbors. 

How did you get over the obstacle of securing your first deal?

You're in good shape with what he did.When I read your post I was thinking more of putting a security instrument on the house and getting a detailed outline of your agreement that it referenced.

With Facebook and other social media platforms.

Use one of the standardize browsers {Mozillia Firefox, Opera, Chrome} and life will get much easier.btw: once you get access to a service (say SmartMove or your XYZ online Banking site),make your life easier by creating a Bookmark and when logging on, NEVER remember the password for security reasons.

Maybe you could secure the master lease and then separately approach the land owner to get a sale.