I neglected to mention in my post that we're asking about seller financing w/ every property we're interested in during this search.

There is now a final decision (public record) finding the restrictions unenforceable on the grounds of changed circumstances. 

Knowing what you want, what works best for your circumstances, and fully educating yourself before committing to a specific product will make it much easier when you actually decide to go through the process.

If you feel that she has neglected her responsibility as your agent then you can try to talk to her broker about commision or try to get out of the contract altogether on the basis that she violated the contract.

I've talked to an attorney that also doubles as a real estate investor and he has led me to believe that this idea could actually work in the right circumstances.

Whichever the correct term is they're willing to loan based on certain circumstances otherwise DSCR is business terminology??

Just as you said - circumstances changed, you found a perfect house where you will live on your own and wouldn't share the same building with your tenants, rates are low and you have the money - so you changed your mind and you went for it. 2.

Doubt they're getting it.Under no circumstance would I ever consider such a ridiculous request.

I also feel the seller has to stand by his sale of the home reasonable time due to uncontrollable circumstances....Also doesn't the wholesaler have to return the EMD?  

Generally speaking, the newer you are to investing, the more cushion you'll want to build in for mistakes and unforeseen circumstances.