I have put days of work into helping her understand the process, answering question, going through her emotional roller coaster ride, etc.

In doing so you can take the emotion out of it.

Fortunately, both Indiana and Alabama seem to be siding with investors and at most granting temporary reprieves from rent with the knowledge that money will need to be repaid at some point.

In general I keep it professional but sometimes people are irrational or emotional.

We have been dealing with some issues getting a temporary use & occupancy permit but that’s a story for another day. 

It will also help you avoid the temptation to try to make a bad deal work and be too emotionally connected to a deal.Don't be afraid to ask questions.

To answer your question: Break up with this deal emotionally and rekindle your love for the numbers of this deal. 

People get too involved with their emotions and their business suffers.

Has anyone, whilst building up from 1-2 house to +10 doors, experienced these types of emotions? 

One thing that is really nice about this method is it takes a lot of the emotion out of the deal very early on.After you identify your target renter, look at the market and where you want to find a property.