I’ll give it a listen.      

@Neil Anthony, if you want to learn the MF space, I think investing as an LP in 2-3 syndication deals is an excellent start, especially if you are investing out of state and, assuming you have a full-time job.That is how I started.You can learn how sponsors evaluate and offer deals, listen to other investors ask questions of the sponsors, and, IMO, you can attend in-person events where you can meet other investors and sponsors and ask all the questions you want as well as hear investment stories of all kinds.Once you get through some time immersing yourself in the MF investment world, you will have a better idea of whether you want to be an active or passive investor.  

I have been doing a lot of research, reading, you-tubing, pod cast listening, and browsing the BP forums. 

If I were in your shoes, I would look for a house near transit access that has the potential for a legal rental suite. 

To those asking why should he listen to the wife, I personally feel it´s honorable and respectful to at the very least consider the perspectives of your life partner who is directly connected to the generational wealth.

Would love some advise from anyone who has been in my shoes, starting out on a new career in real estate and realistic short term goes as a new investor.

I do want the property, but knowing when to listen to people who know more than you is a sure way to get ahead.

Yellow note pad- listen to how they ask questions and provide exact answers.

Your agent is not listening or negotiating.

@Srushti KhairnarHopefully you listened to the inputs on the thread and took action.