Long story short there’s not enough equity in the house to refinance yet, and now she’s demanding her name be put back on the deed/title so she can pursue refinancing and get the house from me.

Anchors for flatscreens are a different story. 

If you want to try to wing it with a FSBO, that’s a different story.

First thing I would do is verify this story. 

You will be able to share your story and receive plenty of helpful feedback from experienced members.

I am now onto my next project and based on inspiration from the BiggerPockets Podcast I want to start raising private money for my deals, now that I have a track record and can show investors I know what I am doing. 

Other people's experiences can motivate and inspire.

Purchase price: $135,500 Cash invested: $20,000 Great 1-1/2 story, 3 bedroom, 2 bath (w/ Den) house in Gladstone.

This is a true story.

Either there is an underlying issue and you're not telling us the full story, or he's making excuses.