To be clear, when I use refer to "checkbook control" I am not referring to a Custodian account that I write checks against, I set up LLC's, that I manage, which are each 100% owned as assets within my xSDIRA accounts. 

Get it in writing.

If the selling agent refuses to compensate or negotiate with you, put this all in writing and send it to the responsible Broker.

However, once I was getting $1500 quotes, it became more important to me to get that in writing from the lender. 

@Xavier Brinkman also make sure you talk to someone in the HOA who is knowledgeable and puts things in writing. 

If so, can I just write them a check or does it need to go through title?

My question is will landlord value staging/ styling for Airbnb/ short term rentals ?

We also added a much needed kitchen renovation that included new appliances, tile flooring, quartz counter tops and white shaker style cabinets.

Thanks @David K. for the input, I’ll def consider writing it into their leases..

Ultimately everyone's FI number is based on where income intersects life style.