I agree with the above statement and only compensate him for authorized work.

Most of the time I am asked for bank statements or something similar, is it the same when using private money?

What's more, public record indicates she lives in state, but hours away.So...I've emailed her with my phone number and expect to hear from her.

From the mysolo401k website: If a participant wants a repayment period longer than five years, plan administrators should obtain a sworn statement from the participant certifying that the loan is to be used to purchase the participants principal place of residence (a principal residence, has the same meaning as the term under IRC Sec. 121).  

Ive tried numerous times and ways to contact the appraiser but they havent returned any calls or emails and the bank says they arent legally allowed to speak with them. 

Two entirely different statements.  

I would have to disagree with that statement.

If you'll email me I'll send ya a list of our inventory.

If your want to see all of the MLS listings to get a better idea of the market I can gladly email them to you!

Email me any time!