This puts a lot of stress and a serious lack of free time to spend with my family.

I'm 3 years into flipping and investing and loving every minute of how this business can stretch (and stress) you!  

I used to be a wedding photographer and shot his wedding.  

Success is easy when there's a giant festival 1.5 miles from your house, and I've got my work cut out for me making this a year-round destination for vacationers, group gatherings, events, workshops, and possibly even wedding.....but hey, off to a strong start!   

This will be my 4th large syndication deal.I can't stress this enough, make sure you have more investors than you think you will need as people's situations change from when you present the opportunity to when they actually fund escrow.Good luck!!

We have accrued a sizable equity of over 60% of the value over what is owed , I am steadily and securely employed and make a very good wage that with this would give me the opportunity to restructure everything to be manageable and allow us the time and ability to rebuild our credit and reduce the stress that this pitfall has caused and is not any help to my wife's health.

UBIT rates escalate quickly, but I personally don't stress it.

I biggest thing I can stress is to continue to take massive action.  

I get disability for post traumatic stress disorder related to my service in Iraq.  

Let's say you put your goals on paper (for ex: I want to make 60K this year as a wholesaler), and you work out the numbers (that means 5K per month, which means ## deals per month, which... when I back it out... goes to ## phone calls) then you don't have to stress when someone tells you "no" because you know you're hitting your numbers and the next "yes" deal is right around the corner.Do you know which aspect of investing (wholesaling, rehabbing, etc) you want to focus on right now?