So many renters change shower heads (and leave them behind when they move), and take out the water restrictors.Lock change, I would just get the 2nd key's from her.Cigarettes in the garage with the door cracked...would not bother me as long as they did not end up on the floor.Is the B&E boy in the Pokey?

I am looking for a loan where I am putting 20% down on a multifamily property and wanted to know whether it makes sense to bother looking at the hard money lenders on biggerpockets or should I only consider banks?

I wouldn't bother if I wasn't a little nervous.  

I hope its not bad enough to not even bother with an investment property at this point!

Looking at the fact this was a partnership, it is likely the other members of the partnership will receive the assets.Trust me, probate lawyers already have a plan for asset disposition and random outsiders are just a bother to them… a lot like telemarketer calls are for you.  

Multiple properties seem to cash flow well, I just can't make myself stop worrying about little things like: (bad tenant, getting sued, negotiating, bothering my realtor, how finished the property is, am I getting taken, etc. etc. etc....)

I brought my first rental property in PA not too long ago.I am located in Brooklyn(Bensonhurst) if you ever want to grab a pizza/coffee.I am also a CPA if you wanted to bother me with some tax questions.

They figured there was something wrong, didn't bother to send anyone to my house to check the meter out.

Did they not bother getting a job for months on end all while living in the rental and not paying rent-I'd avoid them. 

Don't even bother with the NYC market and its 5 borough because it's dried up and over saturated with investors.