Same strategize for the poster, if he intends to live in San Diego then just sell Bay Area homes and purchase another one in San Diego, with ADU.  

My wife makes around $50k per year working two days a week, I make around $100k.

I've had to remove granite that was only installed a day or two before and it was tough enough.If you really want to try to sell it, first see how the removal goes first.

Moving between assistance programs usually takes about 45 days.

DO NOT CALL....go in person.They often don't give you the time of day if you call and quick no.   

I have paid my cleaners (without them have asking) time and 1/2 for Christmas eve, New Years Day, Easter and Mother's Day.

(The first $500k is currently tax free but becomes taxable 1095 days after you moved out.)It’s unlikely this price range will make a good rental, nor is it a property you would buy as a rental if you don’t already own it.

I was working with an insurance agent from State Farm and they told me their underwriting process will take 3-5 weeks when we are already 2 weeks into the 30 day contract, so now I am without an insurance provider.

At the end of the day I might need to go with hard money and jump in head first. 

Property sold to conventional buyer after 37 days on the market Lessons learned?