You want to tread these waters lightly 

I switch up everything (i.e. the color of the envelop, the size of the envelop, the color of the letter, what the letter says).

With 15 years it's just long enough to make the hold less likely...or even if I sell in less than 10 a new buyer can also see the light at the end of the tunnel and may pay without too much of a discount on the price.I attempted a simple analysis of a moderate vs low income ADU project purely as an arithmetic exercise.

A light/cosmetic bathroom renovation could cost as little as $5k-$10k.

White is a nice color too.

And at the same time the Home Designer is saying that the actual color of the cabinet, floor, wall, window treatments are more important(having professionals to help can make things different) than just deorating house with furnitures.

It is not a light read though.

But it has come to light that he is a narc and has been since the 90's and that really speaks to his arrogance.

Most people act tough and talk tough, but when it comes time to visit the judge (or even threatened with it), their true colors show and they are just big mouthed idiots.

Let lights in, but will not let lights back out?