I'd suggest using the calculators here on the site.

Can anyone tell me the best route to go to get a simple website set up w an email address?

If you want to read up on it I suggest NOLO Press website and books.

Looked it up on the county website for listed owners.

You should think carefully about whether this sale will set your daughter up for success or will it continue to enable her so that she always depends on her parents to get by.

I will not be living there, so house hacking is a grey area (essentially I would be lying about living on site if I went that direction).

Start studying as much information as you can about real estate investing on sites like BP, YouTube videos, etc. 

I checked the Better Business Bureau for complaints, I checked the NJ State Attorney General consumer division to ensure he was licensed, I checked every reference he gave by visiting sites and speaking with the homeowners.

As I near my close of service date, I have been preparing as much as I can through books, the bigger pockets website, webinars and real estate podcasts to take on my real estate ambitions the minute I land in the States. 

Here are a few methods that I know of to find these potential deals:- Go to a site and find apartments that have vacant units.