I pay about 20-35 for labor or if I want to do work myself then I'll pay 10 to a helper who is less skilled than myself.  

Have a heart-to-heart about her fears and concerns, and then address them in a way that makes her feel like her identity as a 'helper' is not being threatened.

I also found another VA service at $40 a door 'my property helper'.

Have a couple really good helpers on the operations side that nicely tie this whole thing together.

I was a produce manager 2 years ago at a supermarket in Boston and was actually paid real good I read rich dad poor dad and then quit ran a distribution company then thought I was unstoppable moved to Miami and worked as an hvac helper, sign holder, Pepsi stocker, used car salesmen, dead body remover, helped people move, roofer, flooring, trucker, auto parts delivery, body shop car washer and the. parts manager somehow ended up in Springfield mass and started making handmade motorcycle seats I quit and now run a catering business while working on getting my real estate license lol I'm only 23 so I can't waste anymore time once I become and agent I will start investing and no more random jobs

Also by nature most entrepreneurs are helpers and creators.

Thank you for any help!-Eric

Best of luck with all of that, I assume your "helper" isn't much of a helper anymore. 

You may have limited time and experience to offer, but for an investor having someone for 10-15 hours a week that can help them and the helper gets to learn the business seems like a great win-win.

Sometimes I'll raise a good tenant or helper $20 then take it away with the discount.