Probably because whether someone died on the subject property is irrelevant. 160,000 people die every day. 

There are often some great and helpful people at those. 

It's like being a novelist and people write a review that they never read the book but don't like the genre (happened to me- better to understand that some people are negative and walk with your head high).

Mostly with people I know well. 

Which I don't do and I still get them coming sometimes.Just be aware once operator stars  options to refinance will only be private or  commercial loans tried myself and no luck hard hide is a assisted living with people in it heard of some doing some crazy stuff but hate going illegal on things like this, ended up refi with commercial forget about cash out and such, and you are bound by appraisal as a commercial property which was in our case 25% lower then if we sold it empty as a residential home.

Enjoy the ride!

Are any of the people who posted here still investors in southern Illinois?

It's just lending people EMD.

If someone asked me how bad it is, I would indicate different people have different levels of tolerance but the plane noise is loud enough to interrupt conversations.  

During the refi boom I had people cancel on their lender and switch with me after they had signed closing documents(this was during the 3 day right of rescission for the VA loan) you may incur costs such as the appraisal, but other than that you shouldn’t owe anything to the lender.