Email and cell phone number below.Good luck! 

Do I have any options other sitting out the market for a year, or just sucking it up and paying the $10,000- $15,000 extra that it'll cost me?

Not a ton of extra work, but a good excuse to soak an investor for a couple extra bucks.

As long as you are confident that you can afford the mortgage, I would get a multi-family with an FHA loan and rent out the extra room. this way, you can at least pay a reduced mortgage and build equity over time.

I don't think it's fair for him to add additional costs without my approval so I told him I would pay for the extra material and his labor but not the additional items he added which I think is completely fair. now he is saying he will send me to collections to collect the full amount am I in the wrong or is it justified? 

If not standard is it an extra service you provide?

I get what you are saying about the LLC costing extra money than it might be worth.So we do have an LLC established, but not on title to the property.

Some high income earners don't really want a bunch of extra cash today especially if the environment is not tax friendly.

If you come up with something or just want to talk, let me know and I'll send you my cell and email.

I learned a lot of hard lessons during the rehab loan, finding contractors to estimate was difficult, getting the vendors paid by the bank was difficult, there are a lot of extra fees such as a required HUD consultant, inspections and draw fees.