Can someone help me with situation please ...

I would provide them some information on HELOCs, cash-out refis, and Equity Loans, and provide them with additional research sources, so that they can decide which applies best to their situation, and work with them under a similar idea as to the retirement investors.Would like some feedback, and maybe someone I can bounce ideas back and forth on...

A probate situation and the closing has extended 2 times already. 

Hi Assaf,I'm in a similar situation to you--looking at PA properties, but living in NJ/NY.

So I would start by apologizing and try to deescalate the situation, if it fails then follow what others have said.

Im in a probate situation and the closing has extended 2 times already.

Im literally a nervous wreck About this situation especially since school is right around the corner, and knowing that we have a binding agreement with the lease.

Not sure your situation, but the VA funding fee is a large expense unless you are waived due to disability rating.  

Does anyone have any contacts or suggestions on what would be the best way to find a situation or person I can learn from while I finish my degree?

I read about people doing this, but I don't see anything about how they actually set up the ownership/investments.So here's my question- in these situations, should I try birddogging and give them the deals and charge them a fee, or is that illegal/shady?