But since this is my first 4+ commercial property, my loan will likely be a bridge loan, for sure, i will attempt for as long as long term as I can, but I'm trying to stress test my loan and refinance strategy.

The guy who is mowing commented that the bank was going to list it with a realtor to attempt to get a higher price. 

Because there is no point in attempting to buy a 3/4 unit with FHA if none that meet the test exist in your market.

As I Aspire to become a BRRRR investor and continue to learn and educate myself, I am looking for advice on what areas would be most helpful in my endeavors.

Thank you @Will Fraser  I just went through and attempted another Flat Fee MLS company, which asked me far more detail about the property. 

Best of luck on your endeavors. 

Secondly, should I focus completely on the house hack in Lawrence (where I’d be living) or also attempt to build my portfolio in KCMO while house hacking.

Should I make an attempt?

Ultimately, whether your PM is at fault here or not, they should be looking to resolve the issue in some way that will make you happy after all you do look to to them to lessen your stress and ensure your property is run smoothly and so if they don't at least make an attempt to make it right somehow, I would look to find another PM which is more of a 'partner' with you, instead of just a hired management company.

So far I have experienced the many no's that will be commonplace in my attempt to serve those who genuinely desire to grow a business with fruitful, lasting success.I have resolved myself to accept that, even if I never receive a yes, even after 10,000 messages conveyed to prospective individuals, I will accept that I put in every effort, and let it not be said that I did nothing.