I would suggest having a conversation with her, see what her plans are, and then decide if you want to be part of it.

Hi All, Looking to start a conversation with people that want to invest/partner to earn a good ROI AND learn how we are getting deals so they can do it too!

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When I share about some of my real estate investments with those who don't invest in real estate the conversation only goes so far until they want to talk about something else.

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I have also been in conversation with the agent contracted to provide the bank with a fresh BPO - which I will have a copy of later today.Can any of the experienced note investors share what action steps I need to take to make this successful?

I want to do this so badly, but the conversation revolving around money and who's paying for what is something that's really important for me before I can start the process. 

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