A great place to educate yourself is the SFMTA website where all the projects they are currently working on are listed.https://www.sfmta.com/projectsThe other way you could speculate is by following sheer density, such as Mission Bay or Potrero Hill where there are a lot of new developments going up - almost endlessly.

But I also was stood up a number of times, or had contractors come take a look and tell me the project was too big.  

You won't know TRUE cost/SF until the project is built.In our market, we use cost/SF as a back-end development metric. 

This owner is checked out and the broker let us know the projected gross rents for this year will be $125k.

I assume that although you took on a pretty big project in a new area making you essentially a 'newbie' - your previous BRRRR experience definitely must have contributed to the success on this project. 

Once it’s fixed up you can refinance it off of the projected ARV.

I'm reading about it but I thought I'd ask people out there doing it. 3) I'm willing to work on a project with someone to learn more.

Actually, I used to be an assistant cost estimator for construction projects.

I am also putting a tenant in another property and I find out the well went dry ( that was another post )  Getting that done took time away from the first project  .

I'm asking this question for my father who is looking to be a private investor for real estate projects.