We have several properties here and are doing well, but above paragraph makes me gun-shy about continuing investing.I do drive by addresses and give opinions and answer questions if you'd like to explore it.

Chances are the bank is committee reviewing the loan and is exploring some workout strategies on their own.  

So many unique places to go.  

I think financing is probably one of the areas I know least about and is something I need to start exploring.

So I decided to explore the route of hard money lenders.  

These are the contacts I am searching for so that when I am ready to pull the trigger, I know exactly who to run to.However, I do want to confirm that we are in VERY similar situations and the options you are exploring (FHA, 203k, as well as purchasing an MFH by the end of the 2016/early 2017) is nearly identical to my own.

My marketing goal (stay tuned for 2 new, unique marketing websites), will focus on attracting the home farming market by creating strong relationships with organizations like Future Farmers of America (and others), to assist younger generation, new American farmers matched with land at affordable prices and with easy lease-purchase options.  

My LO stated that if not for the new rule regarding 100 miles we would have no issue (when we prequalified last year we were fine)Now i have explored the legal side with multiple attorneys and loan officers and have been assured that as long as i live in the 4 unit that we currently own, there is no issue with her buying and living in the FHA building (both would still be Owner occupied).

But some places are old and just haven't updated such rules so maybe you could explore it. 

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