They would not allow me to trap and kill them one girl even had a tantrum and cried while the exterminator was there..

Note before I moved in the floor was vacuum but there was a sweat stain on the wall, tons of short black hairs in the bathroom tub, and a toilet paper behind the toilet (suggesting floor wasn't swept).

You have a whole house to protect and tenting it is the only way to kill all the Brown Recluse and Black Widow spiders, cockroaches, palmetto bugs, rats, mice, snakes, possums etc.

Another analogy: it's like trying to ski down a double black diamond when you've never been on skis.  

My favorite is the Black Diamond meeting in Waltham (alternates every other month with their Worcester location, next Waltham meeting is May).

Is this deal starting to sound like a black hole?

Most mold is not toxic, and even most black colored mold is not "black mold". 

Then a couple of weeks ago, she asks me around 9-9:30pm if I could shut my outdoor backdoor light off because it’s shining in her bedroom window (which has black out drapes!)

My wife went to visit her this weekend, and found out that her boyfriend has been verbally and physically abusing her:  he swung his pants at her and the belt buckle hit her in the head and she required  4 stitiches, he threw a glass bottle at her and gave her a black eye to the point where it was swelled shut, and has also slapped her on multiple occasions. 

When researching, I highly recommend also talking with successful out of state investors this way they can answer any specific questions you have because out of state investing is not black and white.