I see former players from the 2000's coming back to the industry under different business names, and some of their prior work was less than stellar.

This would mean that the difference between the cash on cash return and the IRR is appreciation, which you'd receive upon sale. 

I bet if it were your grandmother or relative in that situation you would think differently.

Different DSCR lenders have different guidelines.More on DSCR loans: DSCR loans won't use your income to underwrite the loan. 

I've gone through 4 different ones in the past 4 years and I've finally found a good one.

It looks a lot like the "baseball" that was the market in the 80's but still it's also very different. 

Does it make any difference that my wife’s mother which is the executive of the estate only owns 50% of the property we want to acquire?

We do tend to know what appropriate rents are for the different times of year, although you can't hold to those permanently. 

You’ll learn how to:✅ Work with different investors and operators✅ Understand the dynamics of real estate partnerships✅ Build relationships that lead to future deals🚀 Lesson: Every good deal is a networking opportunity.4.

Every program has different guidelines!