Hanging drywall and fixing toilets ain't so glamorous in real life)SAVE MONEY - (yes you need cash in the bank to buy a property. 

Read Scott Trench's book Set for Life. 

But it is human nature.

There's a quote I'm gonna botch but it's something along the lines of life begins at the first step out of your comfort zone. 

That is the only difference between you and the seasoned guy owning 1,000+ units (you'll be a student of the game for life).

If you untie yourself from this unaffordable home now, and get back to an affordable life and take steps to rebuild your credit, you can likely buy a new home in just a couple years.

My dad and uncle are trying to deal with her stuff and everything else that goes on with that part of your life.

If someone is debt free, they could easily live an abundant life on under $30K annual income. 

IE meeting with foreclsoure consultant.. but I can tell U from a practical standpoint this is highly regional.my buddies who do foreclosures in Oregon have almost all gone out of business becasue the defaults are a trickle of what they were.. and there will always be defaults. as some folks have upsets in their life that they cant control or htey are just poor money managers.

I cannot find a BRRR for the life of me and with my background I thought I'd have it figured out by now.