When you leave employment, most banks will allow a short gap where you were not employed (I think 6 months).

They said that in those 3 days, were about filing for self employment tax.

It was paid to her broker from me not paid at closing    I employed her as a buyers agent and paid a% to her after the sale.

Pay self employment tax? 

If your employer only has one 401k provider and most of their funds have high fees you’re kind of stuck there.

They won't cash flow enough for what you're trying to do.One issue I see is employment. 

Yes, the bar is relatively low, in that you must have a for-profit business activity generating earned self-employment income. 

The growth is mostly thanks to an expanding Texas State University — the largest employer and largest property owner in the city.

At the max $50K for example (assuming for a moment someone's TSP is at least $100K not including employer matching), that comes to about $410 every TWO WEEKS.

To qualify for this relief, hardship withdrawals must be made by Jan. 31, 2018.If you participate in a full-time employer 401k plan, you will need to coordinate the distribution with your employer plan provider.On the other hand, if you participate in a self-employed solo 401k plan, you will need to consult with your solo 401k plan provider to help navigate and coordinate