I have experienced several hardships like these throughout life and know first hand how this can effect families. 

You’re literally losing the effective value of money.

I caught the loan up and gave seller a little cash.Mark sure when you get authorization to speak to lender that the authorization is full access, meaning you can speak to the lender regarding statement mailing address, insurance, impound account, etc.

What did you put in the rental agreement to address this?

after effective date, 60 days for financing contingency after effective date, and another 15 days after loan approval for closing? 

[Meaning, when you retire, you'd still get all its cash flow, even though it effectively cost you nothing!]

. §38-12-103(1) requires you to deliver the deposit (or the accounting of it) to the “last known address of the tenant” who deposited it with you.

The Nest is pretty simple and you have to tie it to an email address but the factory reset and setup is fairly easy to do. 

I give them the address of a house and tell them where the key is hidden if the door is not unlocked. 

If you list your space on other websites, you can prevent multiple guests from booking the same dates by syncing your Airbnb calendar with your other calendars.Calendar importingCalendar importing allows you to automatically keep your Airbnb calendar up to date with an external calendar that supports the iCalendar format, including Google calendar or the calendar on HomeAway or VRBO.To import a calendar: On airbnb.com go to Host and select CalendarClick Availability settings in your calendar viewUnder Sync calendars, select Import CalendarCopy the URL for your other calendar into the Calendar address (URL) fieldName your calendarClick Import calendarIf you edit an external calendar that syncs with your calendar on Airbnb, it will take a few hours for those changes to be visible to guests viewing your listing.Calendar exportingCalendar exporting lets you view your Airbnb calendar on an external calendar that supports the iCal format.