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3 May 2023 | 15 replies
I'm feeling super lost right now and so many mixed emotions after three years of blood sweat and tears trying to get this place up and running.
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3 August 2023 | 14 replies
Keep emotions out of it, BTW poster mentioned INVESTMENT property NO primary, HUGE difference.
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12 October 2022 | 106 replies
I was starting to get emotionally invested!
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22 June 2007 | 11 replies
The biggest benefit I have seen from filing on tenants that did not pay, is that for some of them, they will come and work with me in coming up with an out-of-court repayment plan, instead of having the black mark on them.If you have a patient consistent non-emotional attitude with a lot of people, they will see the logic in gradually paying you back over time.
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29 June 2015 | 12 replies
Frequently owners have some kind of emotional attachment to their home regardless whether they have decided to sell it or not.
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18 March 2020 | 9 replies
Trust the numbers, not your emotion!
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13 October 2020 | 52 replies
The book I highly recommend is Emotional Intelligence - Why it’s better than IQ by Daniel Goleman.
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1 September 2023 | 1 reply
The personal level of the transaction always comes with emotion and thus can cause problems in the long term.
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22 June 2015 | 9 replies
Yes, you were likely wronged but the question is how much do you want to spend financially and emotionally to right the wrong.
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6 September 2023 | 3 replies
One more tip – people remember stories that trigger their emotions.