Here's some updated information, I talked with him this morning and he has been working with an attorney and title company in town to clear all of this up, but from what he is saying its all coming down to how the wording in the will is its conflicting with the deed being put in his name, because of his deceased brother and his adopted children. 

I felt like I was dealing with children most of the time.

I am married with two children and two dogs. 

Most of them young professionals with little children and they were interested in the schools and clearley looking for a place to stay longer than 12 months.

You don't know if she (and her children) will view you as a real estate shark trying to low ball a vulnerable recent widow.

There were only 3 heirs my grandfather didn't have any biological children.

On the other hand, we all know this can be the nature of young children.

He is 72, does quite well, owns a restaurant in town and has many properties including several in Rio de Janeiro and wants to unload some of his stuff as his children aren’t interested in REI.

She also wants to continue living in the home and taking care of it as her own after I purchase the home for $300/mo under the condition that I pay for a life insurance policy that covers her final expenses and leaves her children a few bucks.

Male, Single, Mother, Children, YoungAre all terms that should not be part of your selection process.