We aren't juggling it while being a doctor, lawyer, or bank officer.  

I will consult with my lawyer to see if it's all kosher given what you've brought to light. 

Not a lawyer, no legal advice given here from me but I don't think this is a legal issue, rather a company policy of your PM (you can legally go to your property or send a relative, it's just that your PM doesn't want you to).

You can also get on someplace like Crowd Street were you might see 2-3 a week that interest you.See if they have meetups in your area and go to those.See if they attend any of the regional or nationwide conferences and attend those.DO your due diligence on the principals....check criminal records, see how many full cycle deals they've done, talk to the people on their team like lenders and lawyers.   

Being a realtor can handcuff you in some ways when dealing with wholesaling / marketing and you don't need to be a realtor to do owner finance deals, just a good lawyer! 

Lawyers required for closings in NY. 

Just a cash buyer, transparency, great marketing, a good lawyer/title agent and a drive to be the best?

That being said he does have a point and im not a lawyer by any means so I cant give you any info on the contract legalities.

Hey Looking to talk to locals , investors , realtors , lawyers , lenders , PMs .Interested in the rental market.

I got mine from an education platform I bought when I got started My lawyer HATED that monstrosity, so one day they got fed up and bishslapped a standard real estate contract in my fayce.